Positive Moving Touch

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Positive Moving Touch

Evolved Nest Component #5 of 9

POSITIVE TOUCH promotes neurobiological and social health.

Every age can benefit from positive, welcomed touch. When we are raised nested, we enjoy

being affectionate with others. Human babies are much more immature, social and malleable

than are other animals where most studies of touch effects have taken place. So be careful of

advocacy for separating a baby from nurturers. Babies should never be forced into

isolation but should be in arms, or have nearly constant touch.

WHY IS POSITIVE TOUCH IMPORTANT IN EARLY CHILDHOOD?

Animal studies show:

 

  • Losing contact with the parent is distressing. 
  • Infants need touch to grow and synthesize DNA (Schanberg, 1995). 
  • Positive touch promotes adaptive behavioral arousals, sleep cycles, social development and exploratory activities (McKenna, 2020; Panksepp, 1998). It has longlasting health benefits for brain development and lowering the risk for depression (Field, 1995).
  • Multiple systems are regulated by the presence of the mother or trusted nurturer and quickly become dysregulated when she is physically absent (Hofer, 1994). 
  • Physical separation activates painful emotions (Ladd, Owens, & Nemeroff, 1996; Panksepp, 2003; Sanchez, Ladd, & Plotsky, 2001).
  • Even a few minutes of separation in rat babies causes lifelong changes in stress response (Levine, 2005). And human babies are much more immature at birth and more affected by social stress.
  • Monkeys isolated from adults when babies spend their lives with deficits of 5-HIAA, a main metabolite of serotonin (critical for intelligence, happiness, social behavior) (e.g., Kalin, 1999; Suomi, 2006).

 

WHAT CARERS CAN DO:

 

  • Carry, hold, rock your baby as much as possible.
  • Follow baby’s preferences: they prefer to be upright, especially during feeding, unless lying next to you.
  • Stay physically close 24/7.
  • Each caregiver should practice skin-to-skin contact as much as possible.
  • For older children, play with them in whole body ways. Cuddles and roughhouse!

 

WHAT EVERYONE CAN DO:

 

  • Show affection to your family and friends (with agreed-upon hugs, pats, high fives)
  • Expect people to be affectionate towards friends and family (in wanted ways).

The Evolved Nest Explained: Touch

Darcia Narvaez and Mary Tarsha discuss one of the nine components of the Evolved Nest: Positive Moving Touch.

Evolved Nest Podcast Series

Podcast Series

Listen to the full 24 part series of the Evolved Nest. Visit our podcast page to see the variety of podcasts available.

28 Day Baby Care Campaign!

What Do Babies Need? What Are Their Cues?

NOTE: Babies are children under about age 2.5 years.

NOTE: The terms motherliness, mothering, mother love, good enough mothers refer to empathic care or nurturing that mothers and other adults can provide.

There is a lot of misinformation about babies and their needs, and parents are often encouraged to ignore baby’s signals. Bad idea. Babies are “half-baked” at birth and have much to learn with the help of physical and emotional support from caregivers. Taking care of baby’s needs is an investment that pays off with a happier, healthier child and adult. Here are 28 days of reminders about babies and their needs.

Visit the 28 Day Baby Care Campaign to discover a dynamic series of prompts to help you think about a baby’s needs.

RESOURCES

Supporting The Evolved Nest Means Supporting Your Community

Always pay attention to your child’s reaction and don’t not impose touch when it is not wanted.

More about positive touch and some ideas for families:

https://www.greenchildmagazine.com/sustainable-power-of-touch/

Baby massage

https://www.mamanatural.com/baby-massage/

If you use oil, do NOT use mineral oil or baby oil with mineral oil—it’s a carcinogen.

Baby wearing:

https://www.mamanatural.com/babywearing/

https://www.instructables.com/id/How-to-carry-your-baby-African-style/

Teach your baby gesture language from the beginning as a way for a non-verbal baby to communicate needs more directly.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVKnVPRklCc

More information on health benefits

https://www.parentingscience.com/responsive-parenting-health-benefits.html

Recommended Books

The Art of Roughhousing

https://www.amazon.com/Art-Roughhousing-Anthony-T-DeBenedet/dp/B01L97OCC4

Read Darcai's post on Kindred.

Community and Institutional Practices

Creating Systemic Change

Community practices refer to everything outside a particular family, so that means policies and practices of neighborhoods, counties, cities, states, schools, and workplaces. Institutions that govern our lives also need to be responsible to promote flourishing in children. Here are some ideas for ways for community practices to support children and families. 


Local communities

Government Policies

Professional Organizations

ResearchersEthics


Evolved Nest Articles on Community and Cultural Support, and How They are Missing in America:


The Layers Of Structures That Support Individuals, Families – And How The Pandemic Changed Them
Early Partnership Childhood Care: What Should Centers Provide?

We Stand On the Shoulders of Giants

 

Evolved Nest Champions in Child-directed Breastfeeding

In the quiet unfolding of the Evolved Nest’s transdisciplinary, holistic story, we find ourselves grateful weavers, threading together the luminous threads spun by those who came before.

The giants in the field of Nature Connection have gifted us the sturdy shoulders upon which this work perches. Their curiosity, rigor, and compassion light the path from isolation to interconnection, reminding us that true science is a chorus of voices, echoing through time. With profound humility, we bow in thanks, knowing every insight we offer is but a reflection of their enduring legacy, urging us toward nests that cradle not just children, but the flourishing of all life.

If you would like to nominate an Evolved Nest Champion, send us a note at nestedworldinitiative (at) gmail.com.

Evolved Nest Champions in Breastfeeding.

Click on the names below to read their posts on Kindred Magazine or watch the Evolved Nest Champion’s presentations at Darcia Narvaez’s University of Notre Dame’s Symposiums, held in 2010, 2012, 2014, and 2016.