“This gem of a book, vast in erudition and insight and rich in mind-boggling scientific observation, will leave the reader both humbled and grateful.”

–Excerpt from foreword by Gabor Maté, author of The Myth of Normal

This is the most thought-provoking, fascinating, challenging, beautiful book I’ve read in years. With remarkable scholarship and compelling storytelling, the authors examine the consequences of humanity’s arrogant, and, ultimately, futile rebellion from the natural world.  There are qualities of the human brain which have allowed our species to invent ourselves into our modern world and live as if we are apart from, and ‘above,’ the rest of the natural world.  The authors continually remind us we are ‘a part’ of the natural world.  Reflecting on this unavoidable truth, the authors provide guidance for moving forward in our sociocultural evolution. These reflections on the true gifts of our ‘nature’ provide suggestions for recapturing the power of these gifts in all of our childrearing and community-building practices.  This book is a wonder on so many levels; the combination of expertise and mastery from these two scholars creates a unique, rich experience for the reader.  From an encyclopedic knowledge of the lives of other species to developmental psychology to the basics of brain development, the authors make cross-disciplinary connections to illustrate the urgent need to create biologically respectful practices, programs, and policy, especially in early childhood.

–Bruce D. Perry, M.D., Ph.D.
Principal, The Neurosequential Network
Professor (Adjunct), Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences, Feinberg School of Medicine, Northwestern University
Professor (Adjunct), School of Allied Health, College of Science, Health and Engineering, La Trobe University, Melbourne, Victoria, Australia

“In this groundbreaking volume Gay Bradshaw and Darcia Narvaez seamlessly weave back and forth between animals and humans in order to describe the deeper mechanisms, common to both, activated in the evolved nest that optimizes the socioemotional growth of a developing organism.  Writing in an evocative, passionate, and at times poetic style, they offer numerous fascinating intimate portraits of the early beginnings of the evolved nest across not only humans but a broad spectrum of species, and thereby their shared capacity for engagement, self-regulation, play, love, and consciousness. The authors anchor this creative interdisciplinary work in recent neuroscience, specifically in an expanding body of research on the early developing emotional right brain and its central role in evolutionary conserved mechanisms of brain lateralization, synchrony, attachment, nonverbal communication, and survival strategies that operate at subconscious levels over the lifespan. This book is both an absolute pleasure to read, yet at the same time it provocatively challenges us to rethink our relationship with and moral responsibilities to the other species with whom we share the planet.

–Allan N. Schore, Ph.D., Department of Psychiatry and Biobehavioral Sciences, University of California at Los Angeles David Geffen School of Medicine

“Taking us on a timely and vital tour of our evolutionary history of cooperative child-rearing, Narvaez and Bradshaw provide a crucial documentation of how our ancestral history is one of collaborating as a larger identity than the lessons modern culture portrays of solo-self in isolation not only in childcare, but in our larger life journeys.  With this perspective we are given a pathway back to the truth of our larger experience of self, one deeply woven not only in these bodies we are born into, but also in the relationships with humanity and nature that are waiting for us to reclaim our joyful belonging to all life on Earth.”

–Daniel J. Siegel, M.D., New York Times Bestselling Author, IntraConnected:  MWe (Me plus We) as the Integration of Self, Identity and Belonging

“The Evolved Nest: Nature’s Way of Raising Children and Creating Connected Communities by Darcia Narvaez and Gay Bradshaw is a timely and important book for people of all cultures, humans of all ages to shed the anthropocentric arrogance that we are superior to other species. They invite us to turn to nature and our non human animal relatives to learn the ways of “mothering” – of care for the earth, all her beings and future generations.

–Dr Vandana Shiva, physicist, ecofeminist, food sovereignty activist (India)

One of the greatest misconceptions of the dominant worldview is that humankind is essentially different from the rest of the natural world. In this masterpiece of reconceptualization, Narvaez and Bradshaw reveal the deep commonalities in the developmental systems of both humans and our nonhuman Relatives. We discover how, like our Relatives, humans have an evolved nest that optimizes our wellbeing from conception through adulthood—and how, to our detriment, that nest has been shattered by the destructive sociocultural forces too often viewed as signs of human “progress.”

— Jeremy Lent, author, The Web of Meaning and The Patterning Instinct (UK)

“This profound, wonder-filled, and deeply reasoned book will transform how you adapt to these times of environmental crises and traumas of historical injustices. Drawing upon inspiring studies of the deep caring, playful, and moral tendencies of our mammalian relatives, from bears to elephants, and the deep scientific wisdom of Indigenous peoples, “The Evolved Nest” will reveal to you a new and empowering path forward to relating to those you love, society, and the natural world we are part of.”

–Dacher Keltner, Director of the Berkeley Social Interaction Lab and author of AWE: 

The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How it Can Transform Your Life

“The Evolved Nest should be required reading for people of all ages globally because the future of our fragile, magnificent, and interconnected planet depends on the goodwill and love of everyone living everywhere–people of all cultures. And there is no better cohort on which to focus than youngsters, because they are the future, they will be making decisions that affect their agemates and people of all ages and they deserve to inherit the best world possible and make it even better. Personal rewilding–connecting or reconnecting from the heart with nonhumans and humans and the places they live is a good way to go as we move ahead. As the authors emphasize, universal “nestedness” is a great way forward and a central element in personal connections to all of nature. Ever-growing challenges in a human-centered world demand that we all work together and put aside differences and barriers because like it or not, we are all in this together and a united front will surely increase the possibility that we will be able to make life better for all of earth’s citizens.

–Marc Bekoff, author of Rewilding Our Hearts: Building Pathways of Compassion and Coexistence.

“In The Evolved Nest Narvaez and Bradshaw compassionately remind us of our evolutionary and contemporary connection with the diverse social systems of nonhuman species that populate the earth.  We are reminded that other species, especially mammals and birds, share our instinctive quest for safety, trust, and connection that serve as a resource to care for their young. But, more importantly they provide insights into how disruptions in appropriate parenting not only destabilize the culture of humans but have similar consequences on the socio-behavioral cultures of nonhuman social species.  This parallel between humans and other social species provides insights into the profound impact of disruptions in the predictability of safety and trust within social cultures, which predictively increases the prevalence of aggression and behavioral parallels in several species of anxiety, depression, and PTSD.  Narvaez and Bradshaw succinctly articulate the naturally evolved features of both animal and human cultures as the “evolved nest.’ They remind us that to optimize the development of our young, we need to look for commonalities with our phylogenetic ancestors (mammals) and cousins (birds) to learn the powerful lessons of evolution that have been encoded in the ‘evolved’ nest.

–Stephen W. Porges, PhD,  Distinguished University Scientist, Kinsey Institute Indiana University, Professor of Psychiatry, University of North Carolina, Author of Polyvagal Safety (Norton, 2021)

Raising emotionally healthy children is crucial to moving away from this destructive culture. Remembering that we are animals who evolved in wild nature is equally vital. This wondrous book seamlessly merges these  topics in ways that are both startling and deeply, profoundly, beautifully familiar. This book is more than anything a homecoming, and is essential reading for those who care about children, those who care about life on this planet, and those who recognize (or need to recognize) that those topics are inextricably intertwined.

–Derrick Jensen, ecophilosopher and author of The Myth of Human Supremacy

The Evolved Nest shows how much we can learn from Nature about collaboration, empathy, and mutual support as strategies to survive, thrive, and better care for our own children. Based on scientific observations, it is a fascinating work about many species, from elephants and bears to whales and octopuses, as well as a cautionary tale on the perils of turning against Nature.

—Riane Eisler, author of The Chalice & the Blade, The Real Wealth of Nations, and Nurturing Our Humanity.

Narvaez and Bradshaw help us see that “progress” has brought with it many unintended eco-psycho-biological consequences which are not healthy for humans and the rest of the biosphere. They help us to look within our species’ deep history for clues to inspire a more humane and sustainable future for our children and all our Kin. We must rapidly adjust the systems and conditions to support a modern version of the evolved nest. This book should be on every educator’s, environmentalist’s and, especially, every policy maker’s reading list. Now is what matters to every baby.

— Ruth Anne Hammond, author of Respecting Babies: A Guide to Educaring for Parents and Professionals

“The evolved nest is a beautiful image of comfort, care, protection, companionship and growth. The Evolved Nest (the book) is a beautiful description of the contexts for birth and development in various animal species, with the focus always on helping us understand ourselves and our truest needs in relation to nature. We suffer when we separate ourselves off.

–Peter Gray, research professor of psychology and neuroscience, Boston College, and author of Free to Learn

“In their book, Narvaez and Bradshaw offer an approach to learning what Bateson refers to as ‘the pattern which connects mind and nature.’ They provide teachings that stem from observing our non-human relations, showing how they exemplify a life-sustaining kinship worldview that guided us for most of human history. If we heed what they say, it could do so again.

—Wahinkpe Topa (Four Arrows), aka Don Trent Jacobs, Ph.D., Ed.D., co-author of Restoring the Kinship Worldview: Indigenous Voices Introduce 28 Precepts for Rebalancing Life on Planet Earth and author of Teaching Truly: A Curriculum to Indigenize Mainstream Education

“There is a poetic space where diverse sciences meet and mingle: that’s where authors Narvaez and Bradshaw live. Their awe-inspiring accounts of animal mothering are more than fascinating: they’re nostalgic – reminding us of our best selves, our way Home. This book is a glorious manifesto for re-wilding humanity, our return to the ways of relationship that will bring us back to peace and ecological belonging. Herein is an urgently needed vision for today”.

–Robin Grille, psychotherapist, author of Parenting for a Peaceful World and Heart-to-Heart Parenting(Australia)

“This beautiful exploration of our world family gives us a rich and deep understanding of the universal principle of the Evolved Nest. From Parrots to Elephants, from Penguins to People, we share countless centuries of evolution that we must deeply comprehend and revere. The science is all here, the anthropological studies, and most of all the wisdom and heart to synthesize this into a comprehensive “call to arms”…our mother’s arms that nurture and sustain all species. Narvaez and Bradshaw have given us a blueprint for a compassionate world-there is hope in these pages!

–Barbara Nicholson, cofounder of Attachment Parenting International and co-author of Attached at the Heart

“The Evolved Nest is as profound as it is illuminating. Narvaez and Bradshaw masterfully guide us throughout animal worlds to show us just how connected and interwoven all mammal species are with nature, including humans. All are born with biological needs, drives and expectations to be fed, comforted and nurtured. The beauty and elegance of nature’s design is tailored perfectly for every species. Since the advent of colonization, industrialization, and capitalism, humans have been evolving away from nature. We have essentially lost the core of what it means to be human. The Evolved Nest can help us bring our inherent purpose back into focus to what really matters, what indigenous cultures have always known, being in harmony with and respecting mother nature, trusting our instincts and nurturing our children for the future of our world.

–Lysa Parker, cofounder of Attachment Parenting International and co-author of Attached at the Heart

“Dynamic and rich in stories about human and animal development, The Evolved Nest: The Nature Way of Raising Children by Darcia Narvaez and G. A. Bradshaw weaves together natural ways humans and mammals conceive, carry, birth and parent their babies. The side-by-side combination of science and beautiful descriptions of early life for animals and human beings are at once inspiring and a warning to how we must return to natural ways and rhythms if our species is to survive. This book is a work of hope. Read it to find our way back to the Evolved Nest.

–Kate White, MA, BCBMT, RCST®, CEIM, SEP, PPNE, PLC, Founding Director of Education for the Association for Prenatal and Perinatal Psychology and Health, Founder and Director, Center for Prenatal and Perinatal Programs and Prenatal and Perinatal Healing Online.

“Narvaez and Bradshaw have written a beautiful book that seamlessly integrates knowledge from the natural world with anthropology, psychology and even sophisticated neurobiology. The wisdom they have extracted from the complexity of development and evolution is deep and refreshing. The Evolved Nest has much to teach academics, society and parents about how to support the rearing of a healthy child.”

–C. Sue Carter, PhD, Professor of Psychology, University of Virginia and Distinguished University Scientist, the Kinsey Institute, Indiana University