Nature Immersion, Connection, and Partnership

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Nature Connection, Immersion, & Partnership

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WHY IS NATURE CONNECTION, IMMERSION, AND PARTNERSHIP IMPORTANT?

We care for those we care about. One of the causes for the planetary ecological crises humanity has brought about is the lack of caring for the rest of nature and a sense of separation from it (T. Berry, 1999; W. Berry, 2012). In the modern world, we too often forget that our species is a creature of Earth and has evolved with the rest of the natural world, which preserves us. As Jack Forbes noted (paraphrased), ‘I could lose my arms, legs, eyes and still live, but if I lose the air, the water,’ I die.

The Indigenous or kinship worldview encompasses all of life on Earth. We have a world of sentient relations. Children immersed in Nature know this. We can relearn this and can hone perception and skills to get along with our local landscape—animals, plants, waterways, soil—so that we live regeneratively instead of destructively towards All.

READ: Learn Again to Be an Earth Creature 

 

Humans are part of nature. How to reawaken innate skills and reconnect. 

All humans are part of nature but in industrialized societies we learn to shut down our animal minds and nature connection, says Tamarack Song. My students are using Song’s wisdom and that of Josh Lane to relearn attunement to the natural world.

What must we relearn? First, that we belong to the earth and not the other way around. Jack Forbes (2008) tells it like it is:

“The fact of our absolute, utter, complete dependence upon the earth is used by native teachers as a part of self-understanding… I can lose my hands, and still live. I can lose my legs and still live. I can lose my eyes and still live. I can lose my hair, eyebrows, nose, arms and many other things and still live. But if I lose the air I die. If I lose the sun I die. If I lose the earth I die. If it lose the water I die. If I lose the plant and animals I die. All of these things are more a part of me, more essential to my every breath, than is my so-called body. What is my real body?” (pp. 181-182)

Okay, so I agree that I need nature. I’ll look out the window, memorize the birds in my neighborhood, sit in the park and appreciate it.

Ah, but this is not enough. Tamarack Song tells us:

“To know Nature, observation and study are not enough. We might be able to score well on a test… yet that is only a beginning… When we approach Nature through study and research we become technical naturalists. Rather than our intrinsic way of connecting from the heart and using our intuitive sense, we rely on technology and intellect. In other words, we are out of touch.”

Realizing our dependency on nature, appreciating nature’s beauty and finding places in it for solace and inspiration are a great start. But Song urges us to expand our awareness even more, to this:

We are nature. We come from nature and will return to it when we die. But how about in between? Song writes for those who don’t want to wait ’til death to feel deeply connected to nature. He tells us we can relearn the “Old Way” of feeling connected to nature, a way more familiar to us as children.

We have abilities that go far beyond the kind of intelligence we test and encourage in schools. Tamarack Song discusses an intelligence he calls “animal mind” that understands “nature speak” where we understand immediately what is being communicated, we take it at face value and respond accordingly. “In our Animal Minds we feel automatically centered. We can think without thoughts and act without getting caught up in shoulds, woulds, and coulds.” (p. 6)

Our animal mind is part of our implicit systems that govern much of our behavior without awareness (Bargh & Chartrand, 1999).

 

WHAT EVERYONE CAN DO:

•  Take up suggestions from Richard Louv, such as in his book, Vitamin N. Select activities according to your interests and abilities and/or your child.

•  Let yourself and children wander around outside exploring the natural world.

•  Go to local, state and national parks and let everyone, including children, have as much freedom as possible.

•  Talk about the rest of the natural world as part of your community.

•  Learn about local animals and plants and what they need to thrive.

•  Get involved in local outdoor clubs.

What are the advantages of relearning our animal nature?

To know nature is to know ourselves. When we are fully in our “animal mind,” we no longer feel separated from nature but feel kinship with the animals around us, with the trees and natural entities around us.

“When we find our Animal Minds we will discover something so earthshaking that it turns lives upside down: life is a verb.” (p. 6)

But Song tells us the core reason why it is so important to restore our capacities for nature connection:

“When we are brother and sister to the Birds and Trees, we see how easy it is to treat them with kindness and respect, just as we do with our Human family. As we take care of our Human family’s home, we will want to take care of forest kin’s home. We will naturally evolve a sustainable lifestyle, consuming and polluting less as we relearn how to live in harmony with all of life.” (p. 5)

 

Transforming yourself through the animal mind.

  • Find a sit spot in nature to visit routinely.
  • Stop thinking and shift away from the planning, calculating, judging mind.
  • Bring an attitude of curiosity, observation, sense of mystery.
  • Practice being present, attending to the feelings of our body and our senses in the moment—sounds, sights, smells, touch.
  • Deep, belly breathing helps get into the alpha brain wave state of relaxation. If we become afraid, we can breathe through the fear (fear is an absence of breath, said a therapist of mine).
  • Accrue mindful moments of presence, peacefulness.
 

Evolved Nest Films

The Evolved Nest: Nature’s Way of Raising Children and Creating Connected Communities

From the immense Whale to the intriguing Octopus – all Animals share with humans brain structures and processes that give us the capacities for life’s rainbow of experiences: consciousness, thinking, feeling, loving, and dreaming. 

Perhaps most importantly, we share common ways of raising our young: what is called the evolved nest. Evolved nests are practices that nurture physical and psychological wellbeing. Each child is “nested” with mother, family, community, and the rest of Nature as one seamless whole. Passed from generation to generation over millions of years, each Animal’s nest has been perfected to meet and match the needs of their young. Nestedness is evolution’s way of ensuring that everyone thrives. Each Animal’s evolved nest shares basic similarities but also unique differences. 

The Evolved Nest: Nature’s Way of Raising Children is the second short film in a series that includes Reimagining Humanity and Breaking the Cycle. This short film in an accompaniment to the acclaimed book, The Evolved Nest, by Darcia Narvaez and G.A. Bradshaw.

Reimagining Humanity

The goal of this film is to expand human imagination, based in deep history and transdisciplinary science, about human potential. We have not always been so stressed, disconnected and mindlessly destructive. 

For most of our species existence we have lived in cooperative companionship. The film illustrates what this looks like. 

Human societies are built from individuals who begin life in relationship. The quality of community support for meeting children’s basic needs influences the state of health the child carries forward in all systems.  Undercare in early life leads to less health in childhood and adulthood and a basic sense of disconnection—a Cycle of Competitive Detachment. This is not humanity’s heritage. Over 95% of our species history was spent in a Cycle of Cooperative Companionship, where children’s basic needs were met, leading to wellbeing in childhood and adulthood, with a deep sense of connection and skills to keep the cycle going.  

Why Reimagine Humanity? Podcast

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Discover the new short film, Reimagining Humanity, the sequel to Breaking the Cycle, and its capacity to help us employ our rational imaginations and ancestral wisdom to remember who we really are, and who we can truly become. See the film above. Listen to the interview with Darcia in the podcast.

Evolved Nest Videos on Nature Connection

Evolved Nest Explained: Darcia Narvaez, PhD, presents the Nature Connection component of the Evolved Nest to her students at the University of Notre Dame.

Connecting to Nature: Indigenous Wisdom Meets Neurobiology; Darcia Narvaez & Four Arrows

Take Up the 28 Day Eco Attachment Dance!

You, your children, your family are invited to discover ways to connect with nature, renew your ecological attachment, and restore your living connection to the Earth. 

Dr. Darcia Narvaez and her students did an experiment to increase ecological attachment—nature connection—through small daily practices. Each day participants practiced one activity that increased attention to and being grateful for the natural world. See here for the press release about the study, published in EcoPsychology

Take up the Eco Attachment Dance to expand your own ecological attachment through an Instagram challenge. Each day for 28 days an activity will be posted for you to practice that day. Each activity takes about 5 minutes (though you can go longer).

If you would like to take the anonymous pretest (and later a posttest) you can see how your attitudes and behaviors change after participating in the Eco Attachment Dance.

Click here to follow the dance on Instagram.

VISIT THE ECO ATTACHMENT DANCE WEBSITE FOR MORE INFORMATION.

Articles

Discover the Evolved Nest articles on  Kindred Magazine here.

Darcia’s Posts on Indigenous Wisdom:

Natives Foster Happy People Without Overthinking

Indigenous Psychologies From Around The World

Indigenous Psychologies Contrast With Western Psychology

What Wise Elders Know

Sustainable Wisdom: Indigenous Style

Wise Elders in the Circle of Life

Earth Home Economics: Rebecca Adamson And “Enoughness”

American Indians: The Misunderstood Heritage

10 Indigenous Holistic Healing Practices

Self-Actualize And Become A Wise Elder

Broken Eagle Wing: Mending Worldview

How Many Worldviews Are There? Is Only One Sustainable?

Our Ancestors Were Smart and Good

The “Death Of Birth” And Losing Nature

Daily Practices That Increase Nature Connection

Learn Again To Be An Earth Creature 

Socially Distanced? Get Closer To Nature

Getting Connected to Nature


Darcia’s Blogs on Nature Immersion and Connection

Overcoming Nature Deficit Disorder

Learn Again to Be an Earth Creature

Nature Heals, Restores, and Comforts

Analyses of Inaction Toward the Ecological Crisis

We Are in a Climate Emergency—How Can Psychology Help?

Humans Defeat Nature—As Prescribed. Now What?

A Good Life: Embodied, Earth-Centric or Controlled, Detached

Changing the Human Psyche for Living Sustainably

Living Virtuously– With the Land


More Resources

Kindred’s articles on Nature Connection

Kindred’s articles on Indigenous Wisdom

Practitioner Guide to Assessing Connection to Nature Our goal in creating this guide is to provide practitioners, organizations, researchers, and others with a “one-stop shop” for measuring nature connections.   

Eco Attachment Dance. Eco Attachment Dance is part of the Evolved Nest Initiative, a web resource to help individuals, families, and communities nest or re-nest themselves. Eco Attachment Dance aims to help human beings reengage their connection to the natural world.

Educated by Nature.

Connection Pathways. 

Nature Immersion, Partnership, & Connection Resources

Living Connection 1st. Deepen Your Connection with Nature, Other People and Yourself. Founded by Jon Young, a leader in the field of nature-based community building over 40 years, Jon’s research into the impact and significance of nature on mentoring, human intelligence, spirituality, well-being and development has influenced tens of thousands of people worldwide. Jon is a Certified Nesting Ambassador.

Children and Nature Network. The Children & Nature Network (C&NN) was created to encourage and support the people and organizations working nationally and internationally to reconnect children with nature. The network provides a critical link between researchers and individuals, educators and organizations dedicated to children’s health and well-being.

Jane Goodall Institute’s Roots and Shoots Program. Our global youth program flourishes in more than 60 countries. Through Roots & Shoots, participants identify and address problems in their communities, while becoming the compassionate citizens that our planet needs.

North Carolina State University Natural Learning Initiative. The mission of the Natural Learning Initiative is to help communities create stimulating places for play, learning, and environmental education – environments that recognize human dependence on the natural world. We collaborate with educators, play leaders, environmental educators, planners, politicians, and all professionals working for and with children.

Nature Connection Songs and Playbook

We Love The Earth

We Love The Earth is a nature connection song written and performed here by Darcia Narvaez, PhD.

A Song Honoring Plants

This song honoring plants is written and performed by Darcia Narvaez. It was included in Chapter 9 in her new book with Four Arrows, Restoring the Kinship Worldview: Indigenous Voices Introduce 28 Precepts for Rebalancing Life on Earth. Many plant species are increasingly threatened with extinction. Humans often act mindlessly toward plants, as if they do not have feeling or purpose. Native American communities honored plants as life givers and teachers. They practiced the “honorable harvest,” a way to treat plants and animals with respect. This song describes what the honorable harvest looks like. Sing and play this song with one or more partners.

We Are Water Song

Water is life-giving, life-supporting aspect of the world. The ancient Greek pre-Socratic philosopher, Thales (c. 624-546 BCE), suggested that all things come from water. We often forget how ubiquitous it is and how reliant we are on its purity. Many people in the world do not have regular access to clean water. This song is to remind us how much we interact with water in so many ways. Sing and dance this song with one or more partners.

Birds We Love

Bird species are undergoing rapid extinction rates due to human activities, like killing insects that they feed on. This song is a reminder that we love to see and hear birds. They need our mindful concern to help them thrive and prevent further extinction.

Sing to the Insects

Insects are disappearing at a rapid rate with a mass extinction underway. In industrialized nations, we often treat insects as pests, not thinking about they fit into complex ecosystems that keep other animals, and ourselves, alive. When we use pesticides on one insect, it also kills other insects.

We Stand On the Shoulders of Giants

Evolved Nest Champions in Nature Connection, Immersion, and Partnership

In the quiet unfolding of the Evolved Nest’s transdisciplinary, holistic story, we find ourselves grateful weavers, threading together the luminous threads spun by those who came before.

The giants in the field of Nature Connection have gifted us the sturdy shoulders upon which this work perches. Their curiosity, rigor, and compassion light the path from isolation to interconnection, reminding us that true science is a chorus of voices, echoing through time. With profound humility, we bow in thanks, knowing every insight we offer is but a reflection of their enduring legacy, urging us toward nests that cradle not just children, but the flourishing of all life.

If you would like to nominate an Evolved Nest Champion, send us a note at nestedworldinitiative (at) gmail.com.

Evolved Nest Champions in Nature Connection, Immersion, and Partnership

Click on the names below to read their posts on Kindred Magazine or watch the Evolved Nest Champion’s presentations at Darcia Narvaez’s University of Notre Dame’s Symposiums, held in 2010, 2012, 2014, and 2016.

Jaak Panksepp

C.Sue Carter

Stephen Porges

Agustin Fuentes

Penny Spikins

Jon Young

Richard Louv

Jane Goodall

Four Arrows